HARD LINES
AND HARD CHOICES
By Max Crapo
As a teen growing up in the 1970’s and in the heart of a
small Mormon community, I remember clearly sitting in the church on Tuesday
nights attending a youth meeting known at that time as “Mutual.” I’d just become a member of the “Deacon’s
Quorum” in the ward to which I belonged. I still clearly remember a picture
hung on the wall which proclaimed:
“The glory of God is intelligence, or, in other words, light and truth.”
--Doctrine and Covenants 93:36
I occasionally find myself reflecting on this statement.
As an atheist, I recognize there being two intents behind this scriptural
reference. It was both a nod toward
expressing the majesty of God, and an encouragement to learn.
The Mormonism of my youth valued education, the
gaining of knowledge and wisdom. Of course learning was strictly defined as only having
value as long as we subjugated ourselves to “the will of God.” In the Mormon lexicon, this actually means “being
obedient to the leadership of the church.”
Another teaching which was common during my youth, was the idea of “line upon line.” This was in reference to Joseph Smith teaching about “revelation” and how we were to develop our own connection with God such that he could teach us through revelation to achieve perfection in God’s eyes. It was also an acknowledgement that we still had much to learn. These were core teachings in my own life and I found great value in them.
Over time, I saw the church gradually shift from an emphasis on knowledge and learning to an emphasis on obedience. It was stressed over and over again that obedience to the leadership of the church was obedience to God. There is an LDS Children's song which the lyrics include
Over time, I saw the church gradually shift from an emphasis on knowledge and learning to an emphasis on obedience. It was stressed over and over again that obedience to the leadership of the church was obedience to God. There is an LDS Children's song which the lyrics include
Follow the prophet, follow the prophet,
Follow the prophet; don't go astray.
Follow the prophet, follow the prophet,
Follow the prophet; he knows the way.
For nearly two centuries, the church has elevated the status of it's leaders. Wilford Woodruff, in his position as President and Prophet of the church, once
taught over the pulpit:
"I say to Israel, the Lord will never permit me or any other man who stands as president of this Church to lead you astray. It is not in the program. It is not in the mind of God. If I were to attempt that the Lord would remove me out of my place, and so He will any other man who attempts to lead the children of men astray from the oracles of God and from their duty." -- The Discourses of Wilford Woodruff, sel. G. Homer Durham [1946], 212–13
I think it is fair to agree that this can be easily interpreted as a doctrine of “infallibility”
and Wilford Woodruff's words have been repeated through generations of Mormons as “truth.”
Over the last century, we’ve seen an explosion in the knowledge which the practice of scientific principles has provided for us. It is a sum of knowledge staggering in its depths and profundity. We’ve learned, for example, that sexual behavior and attraction isn’t binary. Instead it is found in a spectrum ranging from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual, and that it is entirely incidental to the individual where they fall in that spectrum.
Over the last century, we’ve seen an explosion in the knowledge which the practice of scientific principles has provided for us. It is a sum of knowledge staggering in its depths and profundity. We’ve learned, for example, that sexual behavior and attraction isn’t binary. Instead it is found in a spectrum ranging from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual, and that it is entirely incidental to the individual where they fall in that spectrum.
At one time, Mormonism made the claim that “all truth could be found within its
precepts” and Mormonism quite readily accepted the advances made in a myriad of
scientific fields. This changed of
course, when Science and Theology no longer agreed. Since that time, Mormonism as a religion, has
only moved to agreement when the documented evidence became overwhelming.
Certain doctrines within Mormonism have remained inviolate though, and in 1998
the LDS Church set in stone the doctrine of “Family” going so far as to
enshrine it in a document known as a “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
In this document, only a single relationship was recognized as having
validity; that of a marriage made of “one man and one woman.” No other relationship is (or may be) permitted.
Homosexuality, has serious implications for Mormon
theology, there is no question about that. However, in taking a hard line stance, the church
has now fractured and it may already be too late to heal. I don’t think they
have much choice except to proceed now, and become an acknowledged hate group
promoting bigotry against a minority group. They’ll take a significant hit in membership
but the remaining members will be loyal and committed to their vision, even if
it bears no resemblance to a Christ-like vision of love.
So now, I guess you have to ask yourself. Which side are you going to join? The side that values love, kindness, and acceptance? Or are you going to join the side that values obedience, judgment and condemnation?
Are you going to be inclusive or exclusive? It really is your choice. No one can make it but you.
Just remember though, silence is tacit agreement.
This policy(?) was written at a time when science began
to recognize that homosexuality may not be a “choice” and instead may be an
inherent trait, as much a part of them as the color of their skin, their hair
and their eyes. Some forward thinking Mormon faithful likely recognized the
danger in such a theory and preemptively began advocating for a written policy to
enshrine his own worldview, and thus was born “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
Today, the church has a problem. They have written themselves into a corner
with no graceful way out. Their “one man-one woman” policy is now considered
doctrinal, and to back down from the only “revelation” they have issued in the
last three decades comes firmly up against their implied “doctrine of
infallibility.” To admit that they made a mistake and acknowledge that a
homosexual relationship is one of the many “normal” states of humanity
completely undermines their own credibility as “Prophets, seers, and
revelators.”
The concept of “line upon line” could have been their way
out. They could have said “We have
learned much about the science of sexuality and are seeking clarification of
God’s will in this matter.” They could
have chosen to be inclusive instead of exclusive. Their choice was to double
down and take a hard line stance. The backlash against the leadership for this
choice has been enormous and I think caught LDS leadership quite by surprise.
So now, I guess you have to ask yourself. Which side are you going to join? The side that values love, kindness, and acceptance? Or are you going to join the side that values obedience, judgment and condemnation?
Are you going to be inclusive or exclusive? It really is your choice. No one can make it but you.
Just remember though, silence is tacit agreement.
CLAP CLAP CLAP!!! Thank you! Perfect!!!
ReplyDelete"So now, I guess you have to ask yourself. Which side are you going to join? The side that values love, kindness, and acceptance? Or are you going to join the side that values obedience, judgment and condemnation? "
ReplyDeleteStated perfectly.
They have no morals. Only obedience to the church.
How many times have I heard "obedience is the first law of the gospel" without realizing the control implicit in that statement. The ability to simply accept church/cult brainwashing is embarrassing; I couldn't see the forest for the trees.
ReplyDeleteIt is very difficult to see from the inside. The problem with being an insider is that you are taught to see the boundaries as hard lines. There may be a solution which falls outside the boundaries, but because your programming won't let you acknowledge or consider such a solution...you are stuck. This is encompassed in the cult concept of "self-regulation.
DeleteThank you Max. Your artical hit on everything I have been feeling about this new policy. I remember when the "Family Proclamation" first came out and my little family was given it as a Sacrament talk topic. As we review which articular we would cover, I declined on a few of the topics especially the Marriage Thing. My Son got that one, my husband thought that was appropriate. I cringed when he read it at home and in church, I thought... how many is this going to exclude? Back then, as I am now, still very much secular in my beliefs towards the LGBT community. Thank you for your words and contribution.
ReplyDeleteIt is a travesty and a heartache to watch church leaders devastate so many lives in the false name of "righteousness."
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